Questions from Beginners

+ I am ready to schedule a session. Where do I begin?

Complete the session application found under SERVE. You'll have an opportunity to tell me about yourself and the type of session you desire on the form. You will also be required to give us just enough screening information that we can perform a simple criminal background check for our safety.

+ What can I expect from my first session?

You will arrive at the dungeon on time—not early, nor late—park in a designated spot and enter the patio. After removing your shoes, ring the doorbell.

Once inside the dungeon, you will present your tribute to me. We will begin by going over my very simple rules regarding how to properly address me, correct posture, safe words and when to use them, as well as rules for touching.

I will review any physical limitations you may have and any limits or boundaries that I have questions about. You will then have an opportunity to ask any questions of your own, and then we will begin the role play.

The activities that we explore together, and the manner in which we explore them, depends entirely upon the choices you make on your application. Choose wisely, and be careful what you wish for.

+ I am new to BDSM. Is that okay?

Absolutely! We adore playing with eager, fresh submissives and ruining session virgins. We have experience in tailoring the intensity of the session to suit everyone from wide-eyed newbies to seasoned players. Be honest about your level of experience when completing your application to serve and we will plan your session accordingly.

+ I'm not into [insert any fetish]. Is that okay?

Yes. Every Mistress on our team is an experienced professional with a dynamic range of skills and interests that extends far beyond her specialties. You will never be required to participate in a fetish that you don't enjoy. The activities that we explore together, and the manner in which we explore them, depends entirely upon the choices you make on your application.

+ Which Mistress should I choose for my first session?

Our best advice is to choose a professional who shares your interests. I can only imagine how tempting it is to choose the first Mistress who makes you melt just by looking at her photos. The reality is that you are not for everyone, and even the most talented and experienced pros are not a good fit for every submissive. A bad match up leads to a bad, transactional feeling session. Every Mistress has a list of her preferred activities on her website bio. Do your research and select a Mistress who is genuinely as excited about exploring your fetish as you are. You can read about everyone on our team on our Goddesses page.

If you want a cruel Mistress who will shatter your ego, tear your heart out, and leave you wallowing in anguish, don’t contact a Mistress who specializes in sweet, gentle femdom just because you like the way she looks.

Likewise, if you want a soft, nurturing Mistress who will praise you and encourage you to be a good boy, don’t contact a hardcore sadist whose greatest passion is making grown men cry.

+ I've been scammed before. How do I know that you're the real deal?

There are a few key features to look for to distinguish a real dominatrix from a scammer:

1. Paid advertising. If a Domme has put down money for something, it reduces the chance that she's a scammer. Paid sites such as Eros and Tryst also require ID verification.
2. An online presence in addition to the ad, like a website and an active social media account. A website takes time to develop and expertise to grow.
3. Original text on their ad and on their website that wasn't copied from others.
4. Rates that are comparable with the other pros in the area.
5. Photos of their dungeon or session location as well as their equipment. Investment in their playspace and their equipment is a good sign.
6. A variety of high quality photos of themselves.

For more information, I recommend reading some of the excellent guides available, such as Daddy An Li's How to Avoid Getting Scammed and Petra Hunter's Tips for Choosing a Dominatrix.

+ hey bb hru how much????

This sort of approach is completely unacceptable and will rarely earn a response. Remember that a dominatrix is both a professional and a woman of authority, not a casual acquaintance and certainly not your booty call. Behave like a gentleman and always be grateful for the attention she gives you. Say “please” and “thank you,” like your mother taught you.

Good communication is the key to success in any relationship. Pleasing your Mistress is no exception. At the very least, until you get to know each other and you have proven yourself to be a good client, I recommend always talking to a provider with the same level of respect and professionalism that you would when approaching a successful company for a job interview. Classy and respectful inquiries will stand out to classy and respectful women.

Use the title that she chose for herself (ie, Mistress), not whatever you feel like calling her, even if it is a term used by other dominatrices (ie, Queen or Goddess). Miss Kay Lynx’s title is Miss. Mistress Mercy’s title is Mistress. Anything less shows me that you either aren’t paying attention or don’t prioritize my preferences, and thus are of no interest to me.

Screening & Privacy

+ Do I need to list references in order to book a session?

References are helpful, but not required, as long as we are able to generate a criminal background check using your provided information that does not have any red flags, such as assault or harassment charges. Our screening process is minimally intrusive and the only purpose is our safety and the safety of our clients.

+ I'm hesitant to share my personal information for screening, ie. my real name. Is it safe to give you this information?

We understand your concern and your need for discretion. The purpose of the required screening is solely to check for any violent crimes. Every so often, when running a background check, I come across a convicted rapist or someone with a history of harrassment or violence against women. If I did not require screening info, I would be subjecting myself and my team to possible harm from those individuals with little to no recourse from law enforcement on account of the unconventional nature of our work.

Protecting your sensitive information is important to us and essential to the success of our business. The information submitted on your application would never be shared with anyone unless you explicitly asked me to do so, for example, if you requested me to give a professional reference to another provider. We use 2-factor authentication on encrypted gmail servers. If you are concerned about privacy, you can also contact me via protonmail: thegoddessgirls@protonmail.com, but you would still be required to submit the same screening information.

+ Will anyone else have a session in the dungeon during my reserved time?

No. We book one session at a time at our dungeon and nursery, with a minimum of 1 hour in between sessions to maximize your privacy when entering and exiting our location.

+ Are there any recording devices inside your location?

No, there are never any recording devices inside the dungeon and nursery. Photos and video will never be taken during a session without your explicit consent.

We do have a small door camera facing the exterior entrance on the patio. This camera has a live video feed which is only viewable by the Headmistress and does not record any video.

Deposits & Tributes

+ What is the cost of a session for a new client?

The minimum tribute for in-person sessions is $500 to meet with one Mistress for one hour. The minimum tribute for virtual sessions is $150 to text with one Mistress for one hour.

Every session requires a deposit paid in advance, which is included in the total tribute.

All of our rates, including multi-hour and multi-domme rates, are listed in detail under SESSIONS.

+ What is a "tribute" and a "deposit"?

Your "tribute" is the total cost of your session.

Your "deposit" is a partial payment submitted in advance to reserve your time with us.

Once you have submitted your deposit, the remaining balance of your tribute is due in cash at the beginning of your session.

+ Why do I need to submit a deposit in advance?

We require deposits on all first-time sessions. We require higher deposits on scenes which require additional materials or special planning. Deposits are a common means of securing services. To ensure that you are as serious as we are, we require a deposit between 20 and 50% of the total tribute for all new clients and sometimes for particular types of scenes or locations. Any deposit you submit counts towards your tribute. If you take issue with this, please understand that this is common practice, not just in BDSM, but in many professions.

Preparing for your session takes time and resources. If a submissive asks us to reserve time for him and then does not arrive for his session, he causes us to lose time and money. This is not fair to us, nor is it sustainable. We receive hundreds of session requests per week. A simple deposit helps us to determine who is serious about meeting us in person, courageous enough to do so, and able to afford the luxury.

If you are concerned that we will take your money and run, rest assured that this is our career and we are not interested in risking any damage to our professional reputations over such a small amount.

+ What are my options for providing a deposit?

You may choose any of the following payment networks. They are listed in order of preference.
Please wait to send your deposit until we have agreed on a time & date so that I can confirm my availability.

C--h App: $ TheGoddessGirls

BTC, ETH, SOL, USDC: Ask Mercy@TheGoddessGirls.com for wallet address.

Visa Gift Card: Available at Publix, CVS, Target, Walgreens, 7-Eleven, and more. Purchase with cash or credit, open the package, and email me photos of the front and back of the card.

Amazon Gift Card: Mercy@TheGoddessGirls.com

Cash Deposit: C--h App offers Cash Deposit options at retail locations including CVS, Walgreens, and 7-Eleven. You do not need a C--h App account or a photo ID to make a Cash Deposit. Ask your Mistress for her Cash Deposit Barcode, then show the barcode to the cashier.

EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: Always leave the subject line blank or simply write "gift." Any mention of adult or fetish services may cause the funds to be frozen permanently.

I will not hold your requested time for you without a deposit and someone else may reserve that time until I have received it. Once I have received your deposit, your booking is confirmed, and I will send you the address to my dungeon and nursery in Pompano Beach.

+ My payment accounts are not private. Can I provide a deposit using cash or credit?

There are a few ways to submit a deposit without showing a transaction on your bank account.

You may use cash or credit to buy a Visa Gift Card, available for purchase in-person at any Publix, Target, 7-Eleven, Walgreens, CVS, Walmart, Costco, etc. A fee of $5 is applied by the cashier. Open the package and send clear photos of both the front and back of the card to Mercy@TheGoddessGirls.com. Amazon Gift Cards are also accepted and available for purchase in-person at many retailers or online at Amazon.com.

C--h App offers Cash Deposit options at retail locations including CVS, Walgreens, and 7-Eleven. You do not need a C--h App account or a photo ID to make a Cash Deposit. Ask your Mistress for her Cash Deposit Barcode, then show the barcode to the cashier.

We also accept anonymous cryptocurrency payments. Email Mercy@TheGoddessGirls.com and ask for the wallet address for your desired cryptocurrency (BTC, ETH, SOL, USDC, etc).

+ Can I provide my remaining tribute using a credit card instead of cash?

Cash is always preferred. To use a credit card for your remaining tribute, you must:

Inform your Goddess in advance that you will be paying with a gift card instead of cash. Purchase a Visa Gift Card available at Publix, 7-Eleven, Walgreens, CVS, Walmart, Costco, Target, etc, and bring it with you to the session. Present it as your tribute. Your Goddess will take a moment to validate the amount on the card at the start of the session.

+ Do you accept cryptocurrency?

Yes, we accept cryptocurrency, including BTC, ETH, SOL, and UDSC. You may submit a cryptocurrency deposit or tribute without fees, but clear this with your Goddess before the session. Email Mercy@TheGoddessGirls.com for the wallet address.

+ I can't afford your rate. Can I have a discount?

Part of respecting us as professionals is respecting our rates. Paying for our services shows that you value what we have to offer. In addition to multiple years of experience and training to advance our skills, we have invested tens of thousands of dollars into our wardrobes, equipment, and playspace in order to create a unique and totally transformative encounter. Our rates reflect that.

If you can’t afford a session right now, it is disrespectful to shop outside of your budget and then try to haggle our rate. Instead, save up and contact us when you are ready to book a session. It will be worth it!

Session Activities

+ Do you offer strap-on play?

Pegging is very explicitly considered to be anal sex by Florida law, and subject to the same anti-prostitution laws. It does not matter to the courts that there is no contact between your genitals and mine during pegging. You can be sentenced to jail for up to 5 years just for directly requesting it. I could be sentenced to jail if I was to answer "yes" to that question.

Some professionals offer strap-on, some don’t. Either way, asking for pegging or strap-on directly, or any other explicitly sexual activity subject to anti-prostitution laws, will likely lead to your request being rejected or ignored.

Dedicated submissives should educate themselves on the laws that directly affect our work, and avoid increasing our risk of legal penalties.

If you disagree with this law, and/or you’re a naughty slut begging like a bitch in heat for beautiful women to ravage your holes, please support the decriminalization of sex work.

Note: It is completely legal to discuss pegging and prostate play in general, outside of paid sessions, or to talk about a pegging fantasy on a paid platform such as SextPanther or NiteFlirt. It is also legal to film, sell, purchase, and discuss pegging videos.

+ Do you offer diaper changes?

Yes, we change diapers during ABDL sessions!

Mistress Mercy and Mistress Minx change both wet and messy diapers. Miss Kay Lynx changes wet diapers only.

+ Do the Goddess Girls accept requests from women?

Yes. The Goddess Girls accept session requests from all genders and have experience with men, women, and trans clients.

Cis women are highly recommended to request a session with [Miss Kay Lynx][1] or Master Trinity.

+ Do the Goddess Girls accept requests from couples?

Yes, Miss Kay Lynx and Master Trinity accept session requests from couples.

Please note that sex of any kind is not allowed at our dungeon, even between couples.

Private dungeon rentals are only available to BDSM professionals.

+ Do you offer overnight sessions?

YES, we love hosting clients at our dungeon for overnight sessions.

The tribute for overnight sessions begins at $3000 for 12 hours (including about 8 hours of play and 4 hours of sleep) or $5000 for 24 hours (icluding about 16 hours of play and 8 hours of sleep) with one Mistress.

Additional Mistresses and female submissives can be added upon request for $200-300 per hour each. Inquire about rates and availability for double domme or triple domme overnight sessions.

For all overnight session requests, please use our Extended Session Application.

+ Can you travel to my city to see me?

Mistress Mercy's answer:

"I own and operate a dungeon in south Florida, built out entirely to my exact preferences, so I always prefer to host sessions in the safety and ease of my own space, surrounded by the tens of thousands of dollars of equipment that I have I invested in. Additionally, unlike most Mistresses, as a dungeon owner, I pay to keep my dungeon running whether I am here to use it or not. I don’t plan tours outside of Florida because touring invariably means missing out on bookings with my many treasured local regulars.

If you would like me to travel to your city just to meet with you, you will have to make it lucrative enough to not be a financial loss for me, since this is my business and it would make no sense to lose money to travel to you.

My travel rate to come to your city is $750/hr, 4 hours minimum, plus costs of travel: airfare with checked luggage for 2 (including a travel companion as I simply don’t enjoy traveling alone) and hotel accommodations of my choice. Total costs of travel and 50% non-refundable deposit must be paid in advance when booking.

My rates for sessions at my dungeon are $500 for the first hour plus $300 for each additional hour. Overnight sessions at my dungeon are also available (see question above)."

Session Etiquette

+ Can I extend my session if I'm having a great time?

You can always request to extend the duration of your session. Our rate for additional hours is generally $200 per hour per Mistress, but we may take other factors into account when deciding on an extension rate.

Whether or not the Mistress will agree to extend the session depends on her schedule for the day and other dungeon reservations for the same time period. For example, if you book a 1 hour session for 6pm and there is another session booked for 8pm, you would not be able to request to extend the session at 7pm because it would interfere with the later session which was scheduled in advance. On the other hand, if you book a session for 2 hours, that time will be fully reserved for you.

+ What should I do if I arrive early?

Arriving excessively early is just as inconvenient to us as arriving late. If you arrive more than 15 minutes before your scheduled start time, we will send you to Adult Video Warehouse (5 minutes away) with instructions to bring back a gift. Arriving early and waiting outside of the dungeon compromises my privacy and the privacy of other clients. Example: If your session is scheduled to begin at 2:00pm, arriving at 1:55pm is acceptable, but arriving at 1:15pm or 1:30pm is absolutely not.

If you have a lot of extra time, offer to pick up a coffee or other small item from a nearby store. Dungeons go through paper towels, bottled water, other low-cost daily necessities quickly. If you’re really not sure what to do and you can’t figure it out on your own, ask. We have no trouble with bossing you around.

+ What should I do if I'm late?

If you arrive late to your session, whether or not to grant you extra session time beyond your scheduled start and end time is completely at the discretion of your Mistress, along with any corrective punishments you deserve. Example: If your session is scheduled for 2:00pm-3:00pm and you arrive at 2:25pm, your Mistress may end the session at 3:00pm or keep you until 3:25pm. It is always best to inform your Mistress immediately if you expect to arrive late.

+ How should I prepare for my session?

We are going to spend at least an hour prior to your appointment perfecting our hair, makeup, and multiple layers from our wardrobe, so the very least you can do is wash your ass. Ideally, you are freshly showered with deodorant, minimal or no cologne, and clean clothes. Dressing sharply, like you would for a date, is appreciated by some, but generally not a requirement. As a proponent of CFnm, it’s all getting locked up regardless. If you are expecting a deeply moving scene which penetrates your subconscious, take the time to prepare yourself for such a heart-pounding experience.

Boundaries

+ Can I date you? Do you have any single friends?

This is a professional relationship. Many professionals of all career paths love what they do, and domination is no exception. Enjoy every second of your time with a dominatrix, but respect that it is professional in nature. You are hiring us for a service. Do not expect any kind of romantic relationship, even if you have an incredible connection with her. Do not ask her to hang out, go out to dinner, chat on the phone for free, or otherwise provide her time if it is not paid for.

Please be respectful of our personal boundaries and avoid asking invasive personal questions that are unrelated to your session, such as:
“Are you single?”
“Is your partner fine with you doing this?”
“Do you have any single friends that would date me?”
“Do your parents know what you do for a living?”
“What’s your real name?”

Dungeon Rentals

+ Is your dungeon available to rent?

Our dungeon is available to rent to verified BDSM professionals only. The flat rate of $50 per hour covers the entire property, including the sissy boudoir and adult nursery, as well as use of our equipment. To inquire about a dungeon rental, please use our Contact Form or email Mercy@TheGoddessGirls.com. Rent is waived for sessions which include Mistress Mercy in a paid role.

Mentoring & Professional Connections

+ I am a dominant woman interested in becoming a professional Dominatrix. Do you offer mentoring?

Our team is currently full, as we only host one session at a time at our dungeon, and adding another Mistress to our session calendar would create scheduling conflicts. Head Mistress Mercy may open a new apprenticeship opportunity in the future. This will be announced on Twitter and on the homepage if so.