Findom is short for financial domination, an umbrella term that doesn't only mean to dominate your finances--there are other beautiful aspects of this kink that can make anyone excited as much as it excites me!

Q: What makes you so excited about Findom?

A: The facts are, you don't have many ways to please me intimately, but you can get me wet by spoiling me and making my life financially easier. That means you can spoil me by buying me gifts off my wishlists, reimbursing luxuries like manicures, pedicures, or facials, and even sending for a night out. You might not be able to enjoy these things with me, but at least you can also get excited with me, knowing that you work hard daily to be able to send for my pleasure.

Q: What is a "paypig" and is it a form of humiliation?

A: Being a paypiggy is a wonderful role in a Goddess's life. It quite simply means you're just a piggy bank to open up and use. This could be very humiliating as a hard worker who would never think to be useful at all. As a paypig, you'll finally be useful to a Goddess like me, but also humiliated in every way possible, knowing you could use your paycheck for selfish reasons but instead you are used as a piggy bank whenever it pleases me. A paypig's duty is to reimburse dates, shopping, any luxuries, or even bills! It's my life over yours in every sense possible and this is one way to finally be useful.

Q: Can Findom be encouraging and positive?

A: YES! Findom can be encouraging as it can finally give a slave purpose to work harder and push their work limits into succeeding greater goals. Positive Findom is very hot for me and it pleases me to know that my greed can lead you to personal and professional successes. Without me in your life, you don’t have the drive to work harder or finally put more effort into your side gig but now that you met me and want to please me financially, it’s a win-win for us both. When you are earning more, then you’re able to send more, and when you send more you please me!

Q: Can there be limits to Findom?

A: Yes, there can be limits to Findom. Just like there are limits for other kinks, it’s your job to communicate those limits and/or budget boundaries with me, and I will always respect that. Budgets may seem very un-Findom but it’s very much possible to set daily, weekly, or monthly Findom limits/budgets to make sure you’re not falling into deep financial ruin; that’s not hot.

Q: Is it hot for you to put someone in financial debt?

A: I love a good debt rt game ("retweet game") or just putting a submissive into a debt contract but don’t let that confuse you into believing that your actual financial downfall is hot for me because it’s not. Just like in other kinks, there are fantasies and for some finslaves they love to hear about the fantasy of being forever indebted to a Goddess. They don’t necessarily want to be homeless, but it’s a fun fantasy that I also enjoy. Remember that debt can be something you can have limits in as well. For example, if a debt rt game that we do together comes out to $1200 but you can’t send that (as long as you communicate that before the game) then you and I would set a weekly, biweekly, or monthly minimum payment plus interest to go towards that total. For many, this alone excites them, just knowing that their paychecks will be going towards their debt contract with their favorite Goddess.

Q: Is Findom a rip off or scam?

A: No. Findom is an umbrella term. To engage in Findom: the kink, doesn’t necessarily mean you will be ripped off or scammed. It’s quite the opposite. You will be sending for my pleasure in return. Now "rip offs" and "scamming" are specific fetishes that do belong under the umbrella of Findom, but only if it’s consensual and communicated between both parties involved in advance. Just like diaper fetish is a part of ABDL but can also be a form of humiliation, we wouldn’t primarily assume everyone has a diaper fetish or is into hard humiliation unless specified beforehand. I won’t assume you’d enjoy being ripped off or consensually scammed unless you specifically mention it.

Q: Can Findom be a form of objectification?

A: Yes, with Findom you can be objectified, such as being a human ATM or a walking talking wallet. These are so hot and fun to play with as we both know that being a normal man might not be for you, but at least as a financial inanimate object, you can finally please me.

You might be into Findom if any or all of these points make you excited:

You enjoy to bring gifts to sessions or tip extra without being asked because you love the praise.
You don’t want your Goddess to work as hard as you, so you would like to treat her by reimbursing some of her luxuries (manicures, pedicures, shopping trips, coffee, etc).
The idea of being objectified as an atm or wallet turns you on.
Being demanded to work harder or a find a second job for your Goddess turns you on.
You are aware that you can’t sexually please your Goddess, but you’re willing to accept that your money can.
It turns you on to go on shopping trips while your Goddess humiliates you quietly.

Diosa Bella Banx's Findom Q & A